i'm going to take issue with the statement about the "queen bees".....i haven't seen that on this site and would be very interested in being directed to some posts that indicate "queenbeeish" behavior. i agree with the others, most of the people here are very loving and supportive. and if AG's name wasn't mentioned, it probably wasn't about her. there is a saying in Al-Anon that people don't think about us as frequently as we'd like to think that they do!! i was so shocked when i first heard that in a meeting.....cause i thought i was the center of quite a few worlds....well, as i've matured and listened more and kept my mouth shut, i've learned that i'm not really the center of very many universes!! i'd hate to think that a day could be ruined through our imagination........xoxo pat