Hi pachy,
I agree, you seem very bright.

After 3 years of trying Masterson therpy - and they are the poeple who - from the literature - really understand the issues you have been describing, but each relationship made me feel crazy so I had to leave, ..............
finally I found an M. therapist, and he's the business. I hear people share - like you, so many need help and the situation with finding a genuine Ts is appalling - the industry is a shambles.
So, well, Im always full of ideas, my own opinion is that we shoud have a AA style group for the disorders.... however all attempts at that didnt fly.
My next idea is an online group with my T. as he seems to be one of the few and I want to help. No idea if the technology can be sorted out , and also be confidential, and I havent even asked him..

But if anyone is serous enough about recovery to be willing to experiment and see if it could be worked out.... ---------- we'll I'd be up for it.