Thanks everyone for your replies and concern. I am so frustrated about this because she has been using the internet since she was able to walk because of my background in IS. That said, I think because of my depression I just never bothered to think that she would do anything like that....duh on my part! I guess I just trusted her too much...

Anyway, after talking to my T, I feel much better. I was really beating myself up over this...but I realize now that it was a lapse in judgement, on both are parts, and she will be okay with the changes that I have made... One thing is for sure she does not need access to those sites, but Neopets was a kids site and that is where she met this pedophile at!!!

Thanks for the links as well I will check those out. She definitely will find it difficult to get online now except to acceptable sites and during acceptable time frames... I will also have a log of whereever she goes and messages as well...

Thanks for the support guys I really appreciate it. There really is some sick people out here who are just looking for little kids....what a shame!

TJ