It is funny the people who one might think are sexual or sexy, may not be, at all.......funny, and sad too, I might add.. If you have been seeing each other for a year, and he has trouble with sex, what exactly is the trouble, and what would help him 'consider..' couseling more seriously...an article you print out about the positive affects of counseling, asking him to pick which counselor you go to...can you write more?