Actually, I'm not putting her down by being sensitive in general. My frustration is that her unchecked sensitivity is resulted in her asking for help and then slamming the door in our faces after we tried REALLY HARD to support her in whatever amateur ways we know how.

Being highly sensitive, in general, is a gift, like you said. Slamming doors in people's faces who want to help you, however, serves to alienate. I think that most of us here have more compassion and empathy than the average person in 3D (myself included, regardless of your what you appear to have concluded about me) and give many second, third, fouth, fifth chances. However, there is a limit to how often ANYBODY wants their words twisted around.

I'd also like to add that extrapolating a negative sentiment where there isn't one intended is really NOT helping AG who already tends to expect criticism. This might have been better addressed via PM.