Hi Misplaced...
I don't see how attending a meeting could hurt you...If nothing else you will be educated about Alanon.
Though alcohol is a centerpiece in many of the discussions in the meetings,,a primary purpose of its attendees is learning to manage relationships. Creating and maintaining healthy boundaries are implicit in the discussions and advice.
It is about working on you,,,not the other person...changing focus to get the best possible outcome..
Try it,,you might like it...
Lenny
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I have only one conclusion,,and that is things change too quickly for me to draw them....
Sobriety date...Halloween 1989.
I was plucked from hell...and treat this gift as if it is the only one...
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