Thanks all for the input!

... And Lenny & Mouse - I think you're right! Sounds like I'm jus being stubborn!

This was my first post on here and even in what I wrote - many assumed that I've struggled with alchohol just by the question I posed ... so you can see the obvious image that the organization has - or in my mind atleast. I guess thats just always been the missing link in her suggestions as I never understood why, if I didn't have an alch prob - then why would I attend one of those meetings(?) not to mention (the way my mind roles sometimes) ... as she continually makes the suggestion (now as a just) I even went as far as thinking that my counselor may've thought I had an alch problem - and just didn't want to break it to me or something!!

Anyway - I said all that to point out that your mentioning of the 'Boandries' and 'Relationship building' topics were interesting to me and seemed rather relevant as those are 2 of the main areas of focus during my hour on the couch! I guess I just never would've made the association of that to an al-anon meeting, hadn't you mentioned it - thanks again!