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Sep 26, 2008, 03:45 AM
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Member Since: Sep 2007
Location: Sch of hard knocks.
Posts: 2,179
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I was just sitting here this morning before I go to T.....thinking about my anger yesterday and how I was getting visuals of the times I experience anger in therapy and images of T sitting there ...saying nothing and doing nothing...and wondering why in the hell do I "use" that visual?...then I remember something T once said about my anger,...she said how it was never accepted by my adoptive mother and how she would never "see" it....I realised thats it...its not so much the wanting to get what ever the anger maybe about or appear to be about...its wanting someone to "see" the anger....until its witnessed and validated it keeps going around and around and when I think T isn't doing anything, she is infact doing something more important then talking, shes "seeing" my anger, shes allowing it...oh lordy lord!.. I get it....and yesterday I was wanting my hubby to "see " it also, I was saying "look I trust you enought to show you what I'm feeling" though his not as good as T LOL!, ...... therapy is the "Bees-knees"  ....
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