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Well, first of all, I'm really impressed with how that whole e-mail thing worked out. You wrote it, you waited and sat with it, and you saw the truth of what was going on and didn't send it. That shows so much patience and self-awareness. I'm much more of a "send now, think later" e-mailer at this point, and I admire how you handled that.

Second, his comment about "we'll get you through this divorce" would have bothered me too. Lately, T has said a couple of times "our work is to help you find what you need outside of the room" and it makes me angry every time....like he is saying, this is fine for now, but the goal is to get you OUT of here. Which it IS, of course, and I accept that, and of COURSE I want to get what I need out in the real world (and of COURSE you want to get through your divorce!) but there is something about those statements that...invalidates??...the relationship with T himself.

(((((((((((((((((((((( sunrise ))))))))))))))))))) Thanks for sharing. I always learn from you!