Soo, I just joined and this is my first post and I DESPERATELY need some advice. I think that my Bf who is 9 yrs older than me, is a sex addict. The thing is, we really only have sex about 2 maybe 3 times a week, but every single time I use the computer, I notice that he has been looking at porn online. This has become a daily thing, and he is very secretive about it. Soo, to confirm that this is happening so often, I clear the browser history every day, and when i get home from work or wherever i check to see if it has happened again, and sure enough it has.

I have caught him masturbating on more than 2 occasions and it seems as if the minute I leave the house he is right on the computer! I am soo hurt and frustrtaed, I don't know what to do because I feel like there is something wrong with me. when I bring it up he denies that he does it that often when i know for a fact that he is lying.

I guess it wouldn't bother me so much if i didn't feel that he'd rather masturbate to online porn instead of being intimate with me. we just celebrated our 1 yr. anniversary and i think it's way too early for us to be having these problems.

PLEASE someone help me! am i being overjudgemental?