Some people are worthy of sharing our vulnerability with, some are not. Sometimes I put up high walls that keep everyone out, even those that it would be OK to be vulnerable with. I lose. I have to learn not to do that. Sometimes I also cannot seem to accept that some people are not worthy of sharing, trusting, etc. I keep thinking "the best" of those people and am continually disappointed and hurt. I have a lot to learn about all of this.