Boundaries are very good to have... and to realize other people either have them or they don't. I've found that people who don't have boundaries will walk all over mine and not understand when I hold mine.
I had to learn about boundaries when I was in therapy. I wasn't allowed any when growing up.
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Welcome, Patty!
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Psalm 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.