It sounds like it just was an awfully tense and anxiety provoking meeting, when it didn't even have to be. I'm so sorry they were not more sensitive and um, accomdating. That's exactly what the law is for. Sounds like they need some training on how to handle this appropriately and sensitively.

You know, it's stories like this that really burn my butt. Nobody deserves to be treated that way. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. You are a wonderful and wise woman. You are valued here.

Want me to add them to the toilet paper list?

gg