Hi KB,
I've never encountered my T outside the office. I live in a big city so the chances of that happening are very slim. I'm not sure how I would react. I really think you did the best you could given all the feelings that our Ts stir up in us. Please don't be so hard on yourself. I've been seeing my T for a year and I'm still struggling to understand how he fits in my life. Please keep sharing with us and be kind to yourself. We all understand