My daughter is in her approx 5th year of being diagnosed BP. Probably once every year, the circle goes.........coming out of trouble with alcohol related trouble/problems, finishing AA, treatment, jail time, etc. getting good on meds, going to AA, finding a job, getting finances straight, etc. to starting to drink again. She's at the starting to drink again (it's been 1 year since she drove down the highway, drunk, and getting stopped by the cops).

My question is: Our relationship is very strained, I basically don't want anything to do with her drinking, when I have in the past, she is very mean to me and hating me. Then I help when she has got in trouble, and the cylce starts again. I'm very reluctant to help anymore, I don't know what to do.....she has started to call at 4:00 in the morning, drunk, I don't answer, if I would have the last time, she needed a ride home from a different town, to another town (to get her keys), then back to her apartment. If I would have answered, I don't know if I would have picked her up. I just don't know what I should do for her or not?