I told my therapist abouy my feelings for her and she ended up terminating me....then again Im a male and I think she was intimidated by my somewhat sarchastic sexual references....

it's been four months since our break-up and I admit I am still infatuated with her and think about her more than I should....I haven't a clue on how Im supposed to erase her from my thoughts....everyone says to find a new therapist and talk to him/her about these feelings.....then again cant the same thing happen with a new therapist?