Angela

And I think it is helping me. I think I've applied your guidelines to my reply to LMo to a previous negative reaction I had in this thread that hurt and frustrated her. I know it will take a lot of work and a lot of practice and I also know that I won't be perfect and I'll make mistakes. The point is that I'm going to try to apply your thoughts BEFORE I post. Thanks again for your wonderful insightful response in this thread.