what kind of experiences do you have?

my partner and i tried one a while ago. i think i did everything right, pushed it as far as i could, but my partner said he felt something stinging him a little (maybe it should be pushed in with a long stick! haha). also, i couldn't feel a thing - i didn't feel any pain, but it basically killed all my sexual desires. he said he didn't feel as well as with the "regular set" (male condom).

maybe it just ain't our thing?

grateful for any input,
twilight