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Oct 01, 2008, 04:37 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2008
Location: east of the sun, west of the moon
Posts: 2,259
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((((superman's girlfriend))))
Bad people count on pain and shame to keep you hiding what they did. They want you hiding in the dark, crying alone. They create fear to keep you quiet. They are sick, vile, evil, rotten, creepy jerks.
When you turn on a light the creepy roaches run and hide. Your abuser is like a creepy little bug that someone needs to flip the light on and point it out so someone can call the pest control and let them deal with the creepy roach guy.
You are not to blame, you did not do wrong, the abuser is the bad one. Telling is how to take the steps away from it. Be safe, protect yourself. Any other person being abused may be hoping someone will tell on this person because they are too scared to tell.
Someday when you are strong again you can earn your wages and maybe volunteer somewhere and help society back for the temporary help you get now. Needing help is not the same as scrounging. Needing help is being human and knowing it won't always be like this.
Take Help Now, Give Help Later!!!
I'm glad you came here and told. That is a good thing to do.
Hugs from one who forgot to keep from telling 
leslie and the pixies
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