I have this friend in her 20's that just drives me bonkers. She is so focused on getting a man and that is all she talks about. She is about to move to San Antonio and thinks maybe that is where her man is. Then when she mets someone one she immediately thinks is he into me and then he's either cute or not so cute and if he's in the not so cute category she doesn't want anything to do with him.

I keep telling her that there is more to life than having a man and she says oh I know that but deep down I know she just isn't getting it. Is that something that is just because of her age? I can't say I remember being that way when I was her age but then again I don't remember yesterday either LOL. I try to change the subject when she brings it up but somehow she always gets it back on the I am so depressed because I don't have a man and I my life just isn't complete because I don't have anyone. I tell her that I don't either and I'm perfectly happy this way. There isn't anyone to tell me what to do.

She also complains because she has so many bills...umm she lives at home with her parents and the only bill she has is her car insurance and her credit card bill and she wouldn't have that if she wouldn't go shopping everytime she gets off of work.

I realize I am throwing her under the bus here but if I don't get out my frustrations with her I am going to explode. I try talking to my mom about her and she just says oh that just her and she'll never change and just think she's moving away soon.

I'm not sure what to do until she does move away. Any tips?

Jbug