safe hugs to you all...
i didn't remember abuse until last winter.. and even now i'm not sure of it. so i will count becoming sexually active when i was... whenever that was.
yes, it does bother me too

and i think it's a very rude question when asked by some guy at the bar, or some acquaintance, or even a close friend. gahd. even my boyfriend hasn't asked me.
doctors tho... different thing.
twilight
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花鳥風月
c'est tout ce que j'aime