I've been with my T 4yrs now and its only been of late that I've felt that I'm getting "enought"...give it time, relationships take and need time...when growing up in dysfunctional families, no one gives you time, you have to be what the other people want you to be immediately...relax into the relationship with time then you will feel "it"...2 yrs isn't a long time in the great scheme of things where psychoanayitical (sp) therapy is concerned...