Sweety, my take on it is this;
acceptance is the first stumbling block we have to get past. After accepting ourselves just as we are, we can start, little by little to improve our imperfactions and making them better. When we start to do that, that is the second step in achieving a healthy self-esteem.
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Psalm 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.