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I don't base mine on what I can or can not do, I base mine on how I feel about myself.

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Hun, did you read my post, somewhere, that feelings are not facts? Self-esteem comes from what you CAN do, something about which you can say "I can do this good!" Remember, it has to be a positive, though.

If someone says something positive about you, accept it and make it yours. Don't argue with the compliment or make excuses to the person that gave you that compliment. Believe it!