All my life.My relationship with my mom.Has been very unhealthy.All it has been is verbal and physical abuse.Well right after Christmas 2007.I told my mom.I no longer want a relationship with her.Up untill just last week.She never contacted me.Now she is sending me emails daily.Plus called me a few times.Left me voice mail.I have not responded back.I'm 38 and every year she gets worse.None of her grown kids.Want to be around her.The reason she emailed and called.Is because my brother is sick and in the hospital.But i think she called.For more reasons than that.Plus she is givng me info.That i already know.Because my step mom.Is giving me up dates daily.She says she misses me.But i don't trust her.To much abouse in the past.To trust her or want anything to do with her.This might sound heartless.But i don't miss her at all.