Hey tooter, a meeting sounds great. And you're right... one day at a time is a good policy for a great many things. Remember though, the day can be broken down if things start to get rough. One hour at a time. 30 minutes at a time. One minute at a time. Just remember that. Keeping in mind that you're stressing over things that would stress anyone out should take some of the tension away. You won't be worring about whether you're worring for no reason. I see what you mean about your fear for your man. The thing that I try to remember when I have thoughts about that kind of thing is that (and PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't let this upset you) is that anything could happen at any time. So worrying about it really doesn't do me much good. I know that it's hard NOT to worry about things sometimes, but remember that deep breathing aides relaxation and relaxation can take away worry for a while. I hope this helps.

Ry