I think your bf cares about you....I'm going through the same thing...I don't feel I have a purpose in life...at least right now...Your bf just wants you to know he likes you for you and you don't have to change. He doesn't care if you don't have anything figured out at the moment...he just wants to be with you. My bf says the same thing...he'll support me in anything I want to do...I say..."I'm going to quit school and become a stripper" he was like "sure, but only for me" and I was like whatever "I won't get paid" I know he wants the best for me because he always pushes me to do well. I say I don't want to do homework...and he's like well you have to and that i have no choice....realise the love your bf has for you and start from there...he will be the rock you can lean on when you are lost