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thank you. it is exactly like you said - i told him about that conversation and that it kinda bothered me (i told everything i wrote here and more

wow, proud of myself now), and he explained that he was tired and didn't have anything sensible to say so he didn't really think of what he said and didn't realise that it bothered me.
opening up is good. it's hard sometimes, but it's worth it. maybe it will not ease your pain right away, but eventually it will.
thanks for your reply. best of luck to you and your bf, he sounds like a wonderful person

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