i am... shocked at what your therapist said. a 7 year old girl.... might have asked for abuse?? that is bull crap my dearie, don't believe that one moment. tell her what you wrote here. tell her that you did not most definitely act or dress provocatively and it hurt you that she even said that, that it is not going to make any progress in your healing. write a note and give it to her if you feel like you don't want to say it or feel intimidated by her. (of course you can try writing it a bit more politely than i have here... ask if you have understood correctly)

ok - help me out here folks if i'm overreacting - but that just makes my blood boil. psh!

(even if a 7 yr old girl is acting / dressing provocatively - they aren't aware of what they are "asking" - so there is no way a man can be excused for such actions, unless he is mentally about 7 years old too - and this is only the judicial viewpoint)


twilight