LMo...

Your post struck a nerve with me, and really helped me to put this into perspective. And, you are right the relationship with my ex may have been great for me, but not for her.

I can certainly apprecaite the fact that being in a relationship with someone that is depressed is very stressful. The frustrating thing is that for many people depression can be temporary with the right help. So, just as many people are "cured" so to can the person that is depressed. I just think she gave up on me too soon that's all.

I will get over it and I am trying to move on. I have no intention of getting into any relationship again for a long, long time. I need to take this tie to get well and rediscover who I am and what it is that I want in this life. In the meantime it is just so painful to not have her in my life. I just can help that.