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Old Oct 03, 2008, 02:15 PM
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Hi all! So i am back to my paranoid thinking, worrying. My boyfriend had interviewed for a job, he just found out he got it, in fact he starts on Monday. He is finally going to have a normal work schedule, instead of 4 12 hour shifts, 2 of those being night shifts. I should be happy becaue that means that we can make real plans with friends and family and not worry about him working over night or on weekends. I am in fact happy, I know how much his schedule was driving him insane. So im happy but then of course my paranoid thoughts come out. I start thinking about who he will be working with. Its in an office environment, and im sure there will be cute girls, in fact there is a whole group starting together so i worry there will be cute girls that he will become close with, etc. I am not going to bring this up to him, because i have brought up everything else i get paranoid about and im trying to stop. I just dont know what to do because i know me and ill start asking stupid questions about the people he works with, etc. I feel bad because i know he is very relived and i am too for that matter. I just worry about change when i dont know what is going on. I do know he is going on.

Thank you for any advice!!!!!
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