Thanks everyone for your input and thoughts. Sannah my hubby will say things like no one else would want me, All woman are *****es, He should of stayed with wife #2. I was a cheap wife he didn't need to pay 20,000 dowry. I work and help support us another muslim woman wouldn't work and make the family some money. There is so many other things. One main thing he said this week is he is afraid he my loose his temper with me in front of the kids and how he try's very hard to control himself! THAT SCARES ME!