sometimes counselors and such communicate in their on lingo and it confuses us but im sure they probably know wht they are doing i mean to heads are better then one when it comes to this and the doc doesnt always have to meet u to make a decision about you all he has to hear is what ur shrink has to say about what he/she has learned about you over the yrs and compare it to common factors im no genius or nothing so dont take anything i say to seriously cuz i could be wrong but this is just wht i have learned in my own experience