I agree with September.... the real question is not "are you enough for him" but "is he enough for you"? If on the very unlikely chance he does run off to Kyoto or wherever, it is totally his loss, and your gain... if he is really that sort of person, you don't need that in your life. Also if he is making you feel bad about yourself, then he is not enough for YOU. What you need, and what you deserve, is someone that does not make you feel bad about yourself... so next time you ask yourself if you're enough, maybe ask yourself if deep down, he is actually enough for you... are you settling for second best because you don't want to be single?