(((((((endoftherope))))))

You must feel very hurt by your husbands lack of understanding at a time when you are exhausted. Sometimes us women continually rescue our husbands and feel we need to fill in where we think they don't measure up. Through my own experience the time your husband will spend with your 2.5 year old while you are in hospital for your c-section will awaken the reality of 'your world' . Cooking, cleaning, working day to day managing, child minding. This reality check will be short lived if you allow yourself to take over as you get on your feet again. Now is the best time to confront him with the 'I need some me time' and 'some support making our family work' as your family dynamic change with #2.

Hope it all works out, every family is different and you know your husband best. Trust you instincts. Good luck and best wishes on the safe arrival.