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Old Oct 04, 2008, 10:23 AM
dippy dippy is offline
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Originally Posted by Lemon View Post
Just curious...if you are divorced when did you decide to take your wedding ring off? My divorce isn't final yet and I was thinking I'd wait until the final papers are signed to actually take off my wedding ring. But, I feel weird wearing it now. It feels sort-of like a lie to me even though we're still officially married. I don't have any plans to date for awhile so it doesn't have anything to do with that. (I'm a believer in the one year rule!) but I'm beginning to feel awkward about wearing a wedding ring. On the flip side it will be sad to finally take it off and I'm not sure if I'm ready to do that. Seems like there should be something to go along with taking it off since there is a huge ceremony that goes with putting it on! LOL
I took my ring off the moment I found out that my husband had been unfaithful to me. It will either stay off or go back on when a whole pile of issues are resolved. Take it off, you need to be released.