*sigh* =( yes... but on the flip side of that coin. I know that "not being sexually active" is not a reason to not have a pap. but *having* one (to me, in my mind and body) IS sexual activity that I am NOT ok with but having to give permission for (when really the answer is NO)... see the similarity to a certain action???

The only reason my MD said that to me was because i was FREAKING out over abdominal pain but not letting any one see me medically. So she sent me off to the ER and they in turn sent me off to Planned Parenthood. Still no escape. and of course they take samples and tell me "You're not pregnant".... ummm No kidding. I told you that. but thanks for the update!