I agree Pink.

Miss Boots, we see this situation through a straw.

There are lots of red flags.

Whether it is believed or not, the threat of physical violence in an abusive relationship is practically a promise.

In the worse case scenario, if you move in this abuse relationship to a country where you haven't any rights, you stand to lose everything, maybe even your own children, and possibly your life.

There is alot of evidence that these scenarios don't work out well.

Why don't you do some research on what it would be like for you over there - on your worst day now - and see how it fits.

It's hard to lose something you have had.

It isn't hard to lose something you never had.

Get my drift?

Peace,
nightbird