(((((((((freewill)))))))) I too always feel as if I'm not "enough"--not good enough, not pretty enough, not rich enough, not thin enough, not not not. I know all the right advice--I do. I just can't do it because I don't believe it. Self-talk doesn't cut it with me--tell myself I'm good enough because I am. No, if I was, I wouldn't have two ex-husbands, have just ended a 9 year relationship and then this current garbage. If I was good enough. I'm sorry I don't have any words of wisdom to offer you on how to do it, how to believe it. I will be curious to hear any advice, too, though.