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What was explained to me was that it wasn't about being weak, it was that I was too young to have developed other coping mechanisms. And only very bright and creative children can use dissociation as a coping mechanism.
Not sure I was consoled by that explanation but I never forgot it.
As I've said a number of times here, my accepting the others and appreciating what they went through was vital to my healing. Negative feelings towards them stir up negative responses.
I have been free of the chaos for over nine years now so there is healing to be found.
Judy and Company
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However confused the scene of our life appears, however torn we may be who now do face that scene, it can be faced, and we can go on to be whole.
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