You have it... you can always PM me, Vett. I hope you feel safe with me. Express away! But if you don't want advice, then maybe start your post off that way... say "I'm not asking for or looking for advice... I'm just venting". Actually, I think Creative Corner was supposed to be for that purpose, but as you have already noticed, busybodies like me are policing that room as well Sorry - thanks for keeping us in line!

I know you're grieving - just let us know how we can help you through this tough time, ok?

Your friend,
LMo

(thanks Heidu - that was really nice!)

We are ALL going to be a-ok!