I have only my own opinions....and as an unwilling member of the "flashback" group... and a Mom...of a now 24 year old son..

My answer.. would be "NO"... to even being around the man... day, night.. or anything in-between..... but.. you have to form.. your own thoughts.. but... these are mine...and.. you did ask for opinions.. these are mine..

I... believe a man.. that is bold enough to hurt a child... will find a way to do it.... in any.. any type of circumstances... not just a "sleep-over"..

and absolutely.. no offense.. to your husband.. I can.. personally tell.. him.. many ways.. it happens..... right in the prescense of another adult.. and.. the fact that your hubby... is a sheriff.. well... the man.. just might find that a personal challenge..to see what.. he could do..

My own Mom.. a "good" person.. with a higher education.. not only let it happen to me.. but helped cover it up.... sooo... my faith.. in people.. and the "power" of the badge.. is a little.. "destroyed"..

And.. yes.. that is my viewpoint... from my own years of abuse...and also.. my very protective feelings.. towards my child...and.. if I ever have grandchildren... it will be my protective.. attitude...

Ya.. can bet.. my son.. never got near my dad...