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Old Oct 05, 2008, 04:22 PM
SpottedOwl SpottedOwl is offline
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Originally Posted by meander View Post
That is certainly true... in anyone's experience, do these feelings fade away eventually? I have no doubt that in a few weeks I won't be thinking about it so much, but if this happens every time I see him (which is roughly once a year) maybe it would be best to cut off contact?
I agree with Mouse, let yourself think about them...only I would recommend thinking about what the feelings *mean to you*.

Often times we are triggered by other people, and your ex is definitely triggering something inside of you...what is it?

In my experience, once I figure out what it means for me, personally, the feelings fade in intensity. It is like they are there to teach me a lesson, and once the lesson is learned, the feelings go on their way.