You are stronger now that you've found her. She was waiting for you to be strong enough and now that you are this next part begins. Please don't think you'll have to leave her if she starts crying. It may sound scary but you have a lot in common with this little girl and you can get used to her tears just like she'll get used to your strong opinions and ways! (good qualities ccl)

I'm so pained to read of this innocent little girl suffering so much. Good thing she now has you as an adult capable of fighting for safety and healing for both of you/all of you.

No hugs for the hug phobic but good wishes instead?