And I'm just as guilty of invading my husband's space as my friend in the other forum was for invading her ex-bf's space. But she can't see that...

Anyway, MissSurfy my lovely and talented new friend, I think you very much for the thoughtful reply and insight. I'm so happy that you and my other lovely and talented new friend KathyAnita were kind enough to help me figure this one out!

Love,
LMo