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Many times my alts misunderstood integration and thought they would die or thought I wanted to "get rid" of them.
That is completely false. Integration is blending together all that is in each seperated part. It is allowing all the great qualities of each to become available to the whole and to bond together so that all may share a fuller life and more complete personhood.
Many alters need strong reassurance that they are not being cast aside or abandoned by the person they have been helping for such a long time. We need to respect and honor our alters for bringing their strength to help and protect us.
When they know we are blending together, not discarding parts they will feel safer and more valued for their help.
Without my alters I probably would have tried harder to suicide out and that would have been a tragic waste of the life God gave me. Hope this helps a little.
leslie and her pixies
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