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<font color="purple">Someone posted asking about this question a while back..... she had been accused of being "immature".
I just wonder if you feel that way about me? </font>
</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> How to go about answering this?
Some questions of my own come to mind.
<font color="#215E21">Why do you ask this question?
When you phrase your question "you" are you speaking to a particular group of people?
What is important about how others feel about you?
Again, any particular group of people and their feelings that you wonder about?
Have you done anything lately that
you yourself think is immature?
Has there been anything lately that reminded you of this accusation?
<font color="black">Now onto accusations..........what about the previously mentioned question from a while back about someone else being accused of being immature...</font>
<font color="#215E21">What does accusation mean to you?
Is immaturity a bad thing?
Is this an accusation in context?
Is this someone projecting their
own stuff onto others by making such an accusation? </font>
<font color="black">Can you see how I can't really answer your question until I better understand your reasons for asking it? What is behind the question of
<font color="purple">I just wonder if you feel that way about me? [
referring to someone else who has been accused of being "immature" ]</font>?
That is what is the heart of this matter imnsho.......and we by now know my opinions are rarely humble.
No need to apologize for a bad day bear. We all have 'em. Instead of apologizing just grrrrrowl and let it be. Why be sorry for having emotions and feelings??? Sheesh bear! Without those you'd be a robot and sorry to any robot lovers out there but I don't think robots make for kind, empathetic, fuzzy pals.
Ask a more direct question and you'll get a more direct answer! </font>
