I don't go to those exams for obvious reasons, so I usually don't get asked that one in a medical setting. Although I always, always get asked about being pregnant and anytime something is wrong, doesn't matter if it's a sore throat or a knee issue, they always act like I'm some kind of ***** even when I told them I wasn't having sex. It's like they didn't believe me & any ailment is always due to pregnancy. I HATE it and it makes me so so mad. And I'm not a prude either, I just hate everything having to do with what's in between my legs.

As for other settings like with groups of people or the girl talk like someone else was saying, I just dodge it, mess with their heads, stay silent when everyone else is telling their story, or I've made one up if I've had to. For some reason it has always bothered me too, even before I remembered being abused. Since then I haven't been asked, but if I am, I know it will bother me even more. And I'll be mad and upset and embarrassed & ashamed & being thinking when I was five with my blank.

So I completely understand where you're coming from. It's horrible. People don't get it because it's not part of their realm or world. A lot of this crap is part of the reason I hate being a girl so much. Guys never get asked anything about their dicks at the doctor unless it's their **** that's actually hurting. They never get asked about their sex lives or have people trying to probe their gonads over tonsilitis or a cough. Lucky bastards.