i know it sounds lame, but I went on an internet dating site because I'm too shy to talk to guys and walk right up to them. I met one guy..we both go to the same university. we had coffee at starbucks on campus...and hit it off. I found internet dating better because the person puts all of their concentration on you...and is looking for someone to date. He noticed all of my great qualities. It's now been six months and it's the best relationship I've ever had.