I don't know the hows and why of setting a social group to private, but if you're looking for an un-private one, come join us in the books group! We'd love to have you--and you wouldn't have to feel bad. I know what you mean, though. It kind of feels like a "keep out" sign. Always makes me wonder what's up behind that door.
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"We can't talk at the same time! It doesn't work like that! I talk, you talk, I talk, you talk!!" ~ Peanut
